Wedding Officiating Tips
Wedding Officiating Tips for Having a Family Member or Friend Officiate Your Wedding
Nothing could be more personal for your wedding ceremony than having a close friend or family member officiate. We love when a couple has a personal touch like this, but it can be hard to put together and pull off like a professional.
Having seen a lot of professional officiants, and a lot of loved ones perform ceremonies, here’s a a few tips for those who are not “professional”.
- Make sure the person you choose is well-spoken and comfortable in front of a crowd. The last thing you want is guests to be focused on the officiant’s mishaps or uncomfortableness instead of you.
- Have a very specific script prepared for the big day. You can find scripts and sample ceremonies at a lot of online resources.
- Remember to include “please be seated” after the processional so guests aren’t standing the entire ceremony (yes, this happens!).
- Also include a way to let guests know what to do after the recessional (wait to be released, release themselves after the family, etc. and where to go).
- Have a lapel mic or microphone stand so guests can hear everything.
- Have someone to coordinate the rehearsal and manage the processional – if it’s not a professional planner or coordinator, ask your venue coordinator.
- A hard back notebook tends to be the easiest way to hold the script.
- Keep it professional, and keep it appropriate. This is not a toast or the time to mention inside jokes or poke fun at the couple.
We hope these wedding officiating tips provide some guidance to creating the perfect ceremony!